{"id":866,"date":"2009-09-09T07:00:58","date_gmt":"2009-09-09T11:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/?p=866"},"modified":"2009-09-09T21:58:37","modified_gmt":"2009-09-10T01:58:37","slug":"the-passing-of-jumper-september-9-daily-reflection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/the-passing-of-jumper-september-9-daily-reflection\/","title":{"rendered":"The Passing of Jumper, September 9 Daily Reflection"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Jumper July 26 2009 - September 8 2009 was Ethan's pet<\/p><\/div>\n

Last night we lost a dear little friend and pet Jumper the tree frog stopped jumping.\u00a0 Ethan purchased his tree frog at the end of July and he misted his cage and fed him crickets daily.\u00a0 Ethan did what he needed to do every day to take care of little Jumper.\u00a0 Once in awhile we would get Jumper out of the cage and let him jump around the house and crawl up the walls.\u00a0 He was very jumpy.\u00a0 Tonight as Ethan was misting the cage he said “Mom Jumper is laying on his side”.\u00a0 He got him out and the little tree frog’s legs were\u00a0 curled up underneath his little body and his quick breathe had ceased.<\/p>\n

Anna made a little turquoise box from construction paper along with a little note that said Jumper, Sept 8th and a little red heart on it.\u00a0 We, all 6 of us, made a journey in the dark of the night with the crickets serenading us\u00a0 to the creek side.\u00a0 Daddy used a pitch fork to dig through the already soft soil to dig a burial place for Jumper.\u00a0 We said a few words about Jumper a little prayer and placed him in his grave then covered it with dirt.\u00a0 Tomorrow morning we will make a little cross to mark his grave.\u00a0 Jake said “You need to buy another Jumper.”\u00a0 Ethan replied “You can’t replace a friend.”<\/p>\n

It is the first death my children have ever experienced and I was the only one crying.\u00a0 Yes, me the mom who said “If you buy a pet make sure it is flush able.”\u00a0 When we discovered that Jumper had passed away Ethan said, “We are not going to flush him.”\u00a0 In tears I responded “Of course not, we will bury him.”\u00a0 I think it is good for Ethan and the children to see me cry so that they know it is an ok reaction to death.\u00a0 They do not have to just pretend to be strong.\u00a0 Children are so different from adults.\u00a0\u00a0We all deal with loss in different ways none of them cried but I think they will all miss little Jumper.<\/p>\n

Part of the experience of having a pet is learning responsibility to feed\u00a0and take care of it.\u00a0 Another part is the love that you give that pet.\u00a0 The\u00a0saddest experience is the death of a pet, which most parents realize will at some point occur.\u00a0 The good thing about that part is that it is easier to take the death of a pet before the loss of a loved relative.\u00a0 It’s like taking baby steps into\u00a0life.\u00a0 Jake asked, “Is Jumper in heaven?”\u00a0 I replied, “I believe that all of God’s creations go back to God, so yes in pet heaven.”\u00a0 For Jake’s 4 year old mind it answered some questions.\u00a0\u00a0It was a sad evening but such is the cycle of life we are born, we live, we love, we exist, we grow, one day we die. Then I believe it starts over again with a different life we have no concept of with God where as Ethan said tonight, “You don’t need anything in Heaven but you are completely happy there.” God bless you little Jumper you will be missed!<\/p>\n

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Last night we lost a dear little friend and pet Jumper the tree frog stopped jumping.\u00a0 Ethan purchased his tree frog at the end of July and he misted his cage and fed him crickets daily.\u00a0 Ethan did what he needed to do every day to take care of little Jumper.\u00a0 Once in awhile we would get Jumper out of the cage and let him jump around the house and crawl up the walls.\u00a0 He was very jumpy.\u00a0 Tonight as Ethan was misting the cage he said “Mom Jumper is laying on his side”.\u00a0 He got him out and the <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":865,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[24,201,202,141],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/866"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=866"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/866\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/865"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=866"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=866"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfilledmom.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=866"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}